A&I Wealth Management > Blog > Elder Planning > Facing the Future with Grace and Dignity: Martha’s Elder Planning Journey

Martha, a vibrant woman who had enjoyed a long and fulfilling life, found herself facing a new reality as she aged. While still in good health, she was determined to plan for her future with the same intentionality she’d brought to every other aspect of her life.

Martha’s goals were simple yet profound:

  • Avoid burdening her children: She wanted to ensure they wouldn’t face unnecessary stress or difficulty when the time came.
  • Make her wishes known: She wanted a DNR order in place and a clear, fair estate plan to protect her legacy.
  • Leave meaningful gifts: She cherished her family and wanted to express her love through thoughtful gestures.
  • Die at home, if possible: She longed for a peaceful passing in familiar surroundings.

Seeing a friend’s family struggle after their loved one’s death spurred Martha to action. She sought our help to organize her affairs and communicate her wishes to her children, who were understandably hesitant to face the topic of their mother’s mortality.

Our Elder Planning Process: Empowering Martha’s Wishes

At A&I Wealth Management, we understand the complexities of elder planning. We guided Martha through our comprehensive seven-step process, which includes:

  1. Creating an elder plan: This outlines her healthcare preferences, legal arrangements, and personal desires for her later years.
  2. Completing her Wealth and Wellbeing Album: This invaluable resource consolidates all her crucial documents and information in one place.
  3. Writing a legacy letter: This heartfelt message allows Martha to share her values, stories, and life lessons with her loved ones.
  4. Updating her estate plan: This ensures her assets are distributed according to her wishes and minimizes tax burdens.
  5. Addressing healthcare instructions: We ensured her advance directives, including her DNR order, were clearly documented.

A Brighter Future, Secured with Care

Working with us, Martha was able to put her affairs in order according to her priorities. Her financial planner regularly reviews her plan to ensure it remains aligned with her evolving needs and wishes.

Martha’s story exemplifies the transformative power of elder planning. By proactively addressing these sensitive topics, we can protect our legacies and ensure our final wishes are respected.

Are you ready to take control of your future? Learn more about our elder planning services on our website and explore our wealth of resources, including podcasts, videos, and white papers.

Let A&I Wealth Management help you navigate this important journey with compassion, expertise, and a focus on your unique needs and goals.

Disclosure: Client stories reflect hypothetical client situations that represent those commonly encountered by AIWM representatives, they do not reflect actual client relationships.

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About the author

Karl Frank, Certified Financial Planner ®, MSF, MBA, MA, is the President of A&I Financial Services LLC, a local business that specializes in wealth management, insurance planning, and retirement planning. Karl cares for business owners and the businesses that care for them. Learn More about Karl.